pramsay posted on September 12, 2006 01:15
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FLASHING LIGHTS
THERE MAY BE DANGER AHEAD!
1. A general uneasy feeling about the relationship. Lack of inner peace.
2. Frequent Arguments.
3. Avoiding discussing sensitive subjects because you are afraid of hurting your partner's feelings or starting an argument.
4. Getting more involved physically but still uncomfortable with who the person is or how they act.
5. If you find yourself always doing what your partner wants to do: this may mean your partner is dominating and domineering the relationship.
6. If you detect serious emotional disturbances such as extreme fears, extreme shyness, bizarre behavior, irrational anger etc.
7. Lack of spiritual harmony.
8. If you are always trying to prop up your partner spiritually whose spiritual desires are lagging.
9. If you feel you are staying in the relationship through fear.
10. If your partner is constantly complaining about apparently unreal aches and pains or going from doctor to doctor.
11. If your partner continually makes excuses for not finding a job.
12. If you are bothered by your partner's spending habits and inability to budget.
13. If your partner is overly jealous, suspicious, questions your word all the time, feels that everyone is against her/him.
14. If the one you date is a perfectionist and is constantly critical.
15. If your parents or significant people in your life are strongly against your marriage.
16. If you have very few areas of common interest.
17. If your partner’s hobby or friends are more important than you are.
18. Inability to accept constructive criticism. Doesn't apologize for wrongs.
19. Career or business aspirations and goals that bother or disturb you because of your sense of priorities.
20. If there are major disagreements over having children and family values.
21. If the sarcastic jibes and pokes that are supposed to be funny are constantly hurting you.
22. If you have major difficulties with the potential inlaws, their culture and values.
If you would like to suggest additions to this list, please forward your suggestions to peter@heaven4sure.com.